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Feb 6, Uncategorized. My desires, fantasies, and wants were tied to having kinky sex, where I was dominated, bound, and my control taken away consensually. Is this all BDSM has to offer? After a decade of fantasizing about kink and BDSM, is this all this world has to offer? That, sex, the physical, was just the tip of the kinky iceberg. In the kink world, you learn about yourself. You learn and develop healthy boundaries and communication methods all in the name of keeping you and the people you interact with safe. You grow.

You experience new possibilities. Once I allowed myself to see and experience BDSM outside of the sexual realm, I realized there was so much more to this life was just as, if not more, meaningful. I love being around my kink and sex-positive friends because they accept me for who I am. Growing up, I always felt like an outcast, even though I hung out with popular kids and played various varsity sports.

But there was something that kept me from fully being able to feel at home with them. I felt perverted, I felt wrong. Maybe it was because I was molested for 10 years of my life up until high school that made me this way. While my friends were watching The Hills, I was getting curious about what Masters and Johnson were doing.

Fast forward to today. The validation they first give you becomes the validation you give yourself to go forth and take risks and do the things you want to do because you want to without worry about what others think. Because, if your community can still love you after you disclosing all your deepest and darkest and perverted fantasies, how can you not go and ask for that raise at work?

Oh yes, boy have I learned this one many times over. But is it right, especially in the kink community? I realized quickly that the freedom to explore kink also meant the responsibility I had in growing the fuck up and owning up to taking ownership of my life. Exploring kink gave me the space to practice what I lacked so much of growing up. It was so easy to compartmentalize and sweep shit under the rug. I totally paint an amazing picture of kink and BDSM.

Jim Rohn said that we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. This concept also applies to kink. The only wrong way you could practice kink is the unsafe and unhealthy way: ignorance, dishonesty, victim mentality, and the likes. Make people earn your submission. But they are out there. This could be a blog post in itself. In short, giving myself the permission to explore elevated my life in so many ways. I transformed from this docile and meek person to someone who really stood in my power.

I stopped worrying about who I was going to offend and I quieted the voice inside that analyzed every minute detail of my actions to see if they were right or good enough. I learned that my voice was powerful, and when combined with my actions, I became unstoppable. I became a better communicator. I listened to my intuition more. My confidence rose, and I took more risks and made big boss decisions in my business that I would have never dared to go near with a foot pole in the past. In short, I stopped diminishing my own fire and really opened my eyes to all that was possible in my life.

I had found freedom. So, I challenge you today. Will you step in your power and take that first step to being the best you through the freedom to explore kink? I will be the first one to admit that much of my desires to explore kink and BDSM were tied to sex. There is so much power in being accepted exactly as you are I love being around my kink and sex-positive friends because they accept me for who I am. You Have to adult and take responsibility for your actions and what happens to you, for example Oh yes, boy have I learned this one many times over.

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